HOW CAN I MOVE ON AFTER ABREAK UP
15 years ago
Monday, August 25, 2008
Cupid, The god of love
Oh! Ye god of love, what hath thou doneI seek for my love all my lifeI found noneUntil, I met CupidThe god of loveThou,directed me to my true loveOh! what a lucky me Oh! my dear love I found you at lastThe first time I saw my love My heart triggered with a sound like that of a thunderMy heartbeat seized, my veinsshrinked, my eyes were wide openedJust to take a vigorous look at the damsel before me I had a gush of emoton To look at the perfect work of The AlmigtyWhom,He took days, to mould,create,breathe and beatifythis gem,all for my sakeShe was so glamorous, with an exceptional beauty and a radiating smile Oh! What a belle, an angel from God Alas! I was happy I found my love I felt on tp of the world I felt the touch of an angel I thought I got what I was so desirious of The presence of an angel in my life I thought I was the happiest man on earth I thought I had her forever Oh! How wrong I was It was all infatuation Cupid, played a trick on me My Love, My Gem, and My Angel vanished just like that Cupid deceived me Oh! My Gem where are thou? Why hath thou left me all alone? Oh! I feel lonely I felt the world was coming to an end I felt demoralized Cupid, I need your help once more I am in search of my Gem My Love, My Dream come true Oh! Cupid, The god of love I look upon you for my lost Gem. By seyi adeniyi http://www.seyiadeniyi.blogspot.com/
Saturday, August 16, 2008
How to Treat Heartbreaks
Most young people within the ages of 15 to 30 have been heart broken or have broken someone's heart. Victims of heartbreak often go through emotional disorder or even commit suicide due to disappointment.
At 28, Paul, an Architect has encounter 2 heartbreaks.The last relationship he had was with Tina. Tina jilted him for Paul's best friend out covetousness. Paul felt disappointed and almost committed suicide, but for the quick intervention of his neighbour. "I dont think I will ever love a lady again and I cannot give any lady my trust, they are all cheats". Paul lamented. Paul finds it difficult to love again and prefers being a play boy.
Tessy's experience is almost similar to that of Paul. At 26, Tessy, a Banker is yet to find her Mr. Right. She has experienced several heartbreaks from different men. Her last jilter was Femi. Tessy and Femi had a smooth relationship. The had both done the ceremonial traditional wedding. The planned to get married in three months time, until Femi lustfully impregnated his secretary in the office. He had no choice than to claim responsibility and father the child. Tessy now holds the notion that all men are wolves dressed in a sheep clothing.
Heartbreak comes with emotional breakdown, distrust, hatred and most times mental disorder. There are so many things that lead to heartbreak. Below are some of the few causes of heartbreak.
1. Lack of love: Love is the foundation in which every relationship is built. When you are into a relationship that your partner never had true love for you, but got into the relationship for a selfish reason, the so called love tends to depreciate and later die. The difference between true love and false love is that true love does not ware out and does not die, but false love dies. When the love finally dies, the relationship also dies, thereby, leading to heartbreak 2. Misunderstanding: I have seen so many relationships and marriages breaking up due to misunderstanding, lack of trust or lack of love between the two parties. Because of misunderstanding in a relationship, A relationship will die prematurely. Inotherwords, one of the party's heart is broken 3. Covetousness: Having a very strong desire for another person's man or woman at expense of your own partner causes heartbreak. Once a partner becomes covetous, he or she ends up putting the other party at emotional disorder and mental degradation. The first heartbreak I experience was due to covetousness. My partner left me for another man, who was a little bit richer than I. Most covetouspeople end up regreting their action after breaking their partner's heart. There is common adage that says,"The Devil you know is better than the angel you dont know". This leads me to another adage that says " It is not everything that glitters that is gold".
Emotional breakdown is a step to suicidal track. Heartbreaks have lead to the untimely death of so many people. In a bid to treat or reduce emotional breakdown or mental degradation due to heatrtbreak. I have decided to give some tips on how to deal with heartbreaks. Here are some tips
1. Make yourself believe that he or she is not meant for you by changing your style of thinking
2. Change your wardrobe and make yourself look good.
3 Make new friends
4. Open up to someone you can trust, because some problems shared are atimes half solved
5. Try to be creative and have a positive mentality.
6. Finally, socialise with new friends, old friends, family members, colleagues, etc.
BY Seyi adeniyi
www.seyiadeniyi.blogspot.com
At 28, Paul, an Architect has encounter 2 heartbreaks.The last relationship he had was with Tina. Tina jilted him for Paul's best friend out covetousness. Paul felt disappointed and almost committed suicide, but for the quick intervention of his neighbour. "I dont think I will ever love a lady again and I cannot give any lady my trust, they are all cheats". Paul lamented. Paul finds it difficult to love again and prefers being a play boy.
Tessy's experience is almost similar to that of Paul. At 26, Tessy, a Banker is yet to find her Mr. Right. She has experienced several heartbreaks from different men. Her last jilter was Femi. Tessy and Femi had a smooth relationship. The had both done the ceremonial traditional wedding. The planned to get married in three months time, until Femi lustfully impregnated his secretary in the office. He had no choice than to claim responsibility and father the child. Tessy now holds the notion that all men are wolves dressed in a sheep clothing.
Heartbreak comes with emotional breakdown, distrust, hatred and most times mental disorder. There are so many things that lead to heartbreak. Below are some of the few causes of heartbreak.
1. Lack of love: Love is the foundation in which every relationship is built. When you are into a relationship that your partner never had true love for you, but got into the relationship for a selfish reason, the so called love tends to depreciate and later die. The difference between true love and false love is that true love does not ware out and does not die, but false love dies. When the love finally dies, the relationship also dies, thereby, leading to heartbreak 2. Misunderstanding: I have seen so many relationships and marriages breaking up due to misunderstanding, lack of trust or lack of love between the two parties. Because of misunderstanding in a relationship, A relationship will die prematurely. Inotherwords, one of the party's heart is broken 3. Covetousness: Having a very strong desire for another person's man or woman at expense of your own partner causes heartbreak. Once a partner becomes covetous, he or she ends up putting the other party at emotional disorder and mental degradation. The first heartbreak I experience was due to covetousness. My partner left me for another man, who was a little bit richer than I. Most covetouspeople end up regreting their action after breaking their partner's heart. There is common adage that says,"The Devil you know is better than the angel you dont know". This leads me to another adage that says " It is not everything that glitters that is gold".
Emotional breakdown is a step to suicidal track. Heartbreaks have lead to the untimely death of so many people. In a bid to treat or reduce emotional breakdown or mental degradation due to heatrtbreak. I have decided to give some tips on how to deal with heartbreaks. Here are some tips
1. Make yourself believe that he or she is not meant for you by changing your style of thinking
2. Change your wardrobe and make yourself look good.
3 Make new friends
4. Open up to someone you can trust, because some problems shared are atimes half solved
5. Try to be creative and have a positive mentality.
6. Finally, socialise with new friends, old friends, family members, colleagues, etc.
BY Seyi adeniyi
www.seyiadeniyi.blogspot.com
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